Do any of you have any friends that are emotional leeches?
Like, you avoid asking them how their day was b/c they are always going to have a long sob story. Nothing is ever ‘good’ on their end. Life just sucks..and in turn, they’ll make you feel as though your life sucks also?
Or maybe the friend who always has drama and nothing more. You never hear anything positive..about anything or anybody. And if you try to divert the conversation so it can go towards a more positive direction, they almost act ‘short’ with you?
I feel drained…
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i know how u feel that’s why i stop talkin to them and when they call all calls goes to voice messae until i feel like talkin to you…
Ms. Independent:I have a friend like that. Thank God it’s just one cause I know I couldn’t handle having more than one.
I try to avoid her if I can help it when I’m in a fairly good mood cause I know she’ll ruin it.
So I only talk to her when I’m having “one of those days”. The way I see it; she can’t be a kill joy if theres no joy to kill that day. So, she can go on an on about her issues and it won’t depress me if I’m alreay down myself.
Ms Conception:I think everyone has a friend or two like that..one of my girlfriends is constantly complaining about shit and i’m like listen bitch not today. I just find a way to cut the convo short and keep it moving. Sometimes people can be bloodsuckers.