I seriously wonder what’s up with people being so judgmental. I truly do not understand it.

I will keep this brief b/c you guys know that I can get long winded. I was looking at a story regarding a woman who formerly worked in the adult industry. She decided to turn her life around and has taken on two jobs…one working in the cafeteria of a local elementary school and the other in the YMCA (I believe). Anyway, she’s basically been put on blast b/c someone alerted the school that she use to work in porn. The school wanted to fire her but lawyers for the BoE said “You better not!”

Here’s my thing…society pushes this image on women that they must be feminine, dainty, classy and lady-like at all times. So okay, a couple of women make a bad decision and enter into the adult arena…oftentimes not thinking about the future consequences of said decision. Now for various reasons, this same woman chooses to get OUT of the industry and basically work on rebuilding her life that’s usually more befitting to what society has deemed normal or appropriate…yet shit like this happens.

Trust me…this is not a plea asking the world to accept something that’s considered taboo. But it’s really an entry putting the spotlight on the hypocrites of the world. You tell a woman that what she’s doing is wrong…she takes heed to your warning and does something that ‘you’ would deem as more appropriate yet…you ridicule her for that too? It makes absolutely no sense to me.

I highly doubt that Louisa Tuck (aka Crystal Gunns) will ever read this entry. But to her (and people LIKE her) I say…b/c this world is so ‘perfect’ and judgmental, a lot of times it’s best to branch out and do your own thing. No matter how much you tone your life down, people will always judge you. Even if you had never worked in the industry, people would talk about you. It’s a win/win situation for them and, of course, a lose/lose for you. I think that it’s unfortunate that people see themselves as being so perfect that they can dictate someone else’s life and cast doubt on someone’s drive to be (somewhat) perfect. It sickens me. Does it make me doubtful of my own future? Absolutely not. I just think that people need to learn to mind their own business…and if what someone else is doing doesn’t directly effect you, your money, or your family…then go fuck yourself and have a cup full of goldfish.

There are bigger things in this world to worry about.