I can’t stand when people act all surprised, shocked and appalled when it comes to why we are no longer.

I was having a conversation (on IM) with someone that I’ve been friends with for a while. She was telling me that she talked to ____ and asked me when was the last time I had talked to her.

I told her that I don’t talk to her anymore. My friend said “Oh ok” and left it at that.

Little did I know, that was opening the flood gates for her to ask ____ why we weren’t talking anymore (why she didn’t ask me, since the conversation was already ‘out there,’ I dunno). A couple days later, this same girl comes back to me and says “____ doesn’t even know why you aren’t talking to her…but whatever it is, yall need to let it go.”

I just sucked my teeth and thought “Oh, that bitch knows.” I make it a point not to EVER end ANYTHING with ANYBODY without them knowing why. Now, if you did something to me (be it minute or grand) in the past and I sought my OWN revenge, that speaks for itself (Yes, I use to be a vengeful chick). But when it’s a ‘break up’ b/c of some ole bullshit that you did, then I will kindly let you know via phone call, over lunch, or through email. Either or, you WILL know why I don’t fuck with you.

But for the record, I decided to discontinue speaking to you when you made it your business to tell me what I should do as a grown woman when your shit is clearly not in order. I discontinued speaking to you b/c you genuinely felt (with NO apologies) that you were better than everybody else. I also discontinued speaking to you b/c I know for a fact that YOU are behind some of the ‘internet gangsta’ shit that I’ve experienced over the past, say…two years. I know for a FACT. Facts totally trump “I swear it wasn’t me.”

So now you know, bitch…stop playing clueless.