When I referenced blacks at UNC as being saddity….saddity, in THIS case references being anti black.
Every place isn’t for everybody. Chapel Hill as a WHOLE isn’t for me.
To anyone else who loves it, kudos to you! But it amazes me those who don’t know the definition of hypocrisy but attend such a fine university.
No doubt, UNC is a great and very well known school. Obviously things are going to change when compared to 10 years ago but whether someone was here 10 years ago, right now, or 20 years from now, black people do NOT have to act like that. I don’t associate with saddity people, especially saddity blacks, ESPECIALLY saddity blacks who act that being black is a problem.
If ‘my’ experience is not everyone else’s, guess what? That’s life and b/c my experience doesn’t mirror all the fabulous-ness that is SUPPOSE to be the black dynamic at UNC, I’m out and going to another school (spring ’09 for those that dumb-assedly assumed I ‘quit’) where people aren’t so in love with white folks but can’t stand themselves.
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I don’t blame you for leaving Jia. I couldn’t live in that atmosphere. I would’ve messed around and validated a stereotype over there.
M.D,:It’s funny because I am/was in the exact opposite situation; went to an HBCU and hated it and am/was accused of leaving to run off to be with white people. *rolls eyes*