Friend: Hey girl…how are you?
Me: Girl I’m good! How are things going with you?
Friend: Great, chile. I just had my baby last week!
Me: Really? OMG! What did you have?
Friend: A girl
Me: Aww, you gotta send me some pics. What’s her name?
Friend: Esoterica
Me: Isn’t that a bleaching cream?
Friend: Yea. I like that as a name though.
Me: Oh ok…..
People, why do you do that to your kids?
I understand that some of you feel that it’s more culturally sound to name your kids what YOU consider to be ethnic names, but think about these kids’ futures. I’m not saying that all kids have to have names like Rebecca, John, David-Paul, or Ashley but damn…how many more Quantavious, Delandricus, or hell, Esoterica’s do we need?
I just think that we should show a bit more consideration into the future of our children when coming up with a name. I will never forget the girlfriend I had in high school, who had a friend at our RIVAL high school that named her child *brace yourself for this one* Africa-Asia Saudi Arabia _____ (fill in last name). I bullshit you NOT! What the hell kinda shit is that?
We have GOT to do better!
COMMENTS
That’s ugly. Ppl don’t take time to realize that those things WILL affect their child in the future. Unless of course they have no intentions of their child having to live in the real world where we are very much so still discriminated against.
Ugh!
adrionie:^^^ i agree with you also i just thank God for lettin my momma give me name that i can actually live up to…ppl its ok for someone to make their kid’s name sound unique but yeesh have some common sense when naming your kids….i just found out that someone name their daughter Petronia….are you serious???? smh
Ms. Independent:OMG there is no way somebody named their kid Africa-Asia Saudi Arabia! Like for real what kind of foolishness is that?
And naming your baby after a bleaching cream? wow!
People shouldn’t be so quick to put any and every name on their child. For the social reason for one and also alot of names have meaning and the name you choose very well could end up being that childs fate.
iVibeBlk's Sphere:Well at least the girl can shorten her name to Erica so she should be okay once she’s old enough to learn to give herself a nickname, lol. I like worldy names but every letter just doesn’t work together.
The Pretty Brown Girl:I am convinced that children w/those effed names are doomed. My cousin named her baby “Genesis Alize” and that child is 13 and has had nothing but strife her entire lil’ life. Now, that may have more to do w/the fact that her mama is a trifling dingbat, which is probably why her name is “Genesis Alize”.
A vicious cycle, I tell ya.
L.:Jia, please tell me you lyin! You know what, don’t even bother. I refuse to believe this regardless.
Mr. Watson:Me: Isn’t that a bleaching cream?
Friend: Yea. I like that as a name though.
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to friend: think about what you just said.
Nicole:Naming a kid is so important. As a teacher I just want to slap some parents. There is a girl at my school whose name is spelled Le-ah. you would think that’s just a uniique way to spell Leah. But noooooooo. It’s pronounced Le-dash-ah and she has the nerve to be offended if you don’t pronounce it right. F*ck outta here.
and1grad:They really need to give doctors veto power over some of the absurdity that young mothers seem to come up with for names. Or call CPS or something.
Queen Neesee:lol i just got done babysitting a little boy named LaCorrian- lol wth is wrong with mothers these days….
RFOURBIZ:fabulous blog. where is the link to follow your blog?
Juana4ev:Dumb Celebs are notorious for this! That Lisa Benet chick just named her recent baby boy, “Nakoa-Wolf Manakauapo Namakaeha Momoa”
WTF?? If you love each name’s meaning so much, save one for each of your consequent children. Why combine all that? This is why folks are getting name changes once they hit 18
Kitty Cleopatra:Real talk, there’s a chick at a company I used to work for named I-Luv-Ashanta Johnson!
I swear on my life!!! I didn’t believe it until I saw her name in the payroll database, I thought everyone was lying to me. Can you believe that ish? And it’s really typed that way in the system, I-Luv-Ashanta Johnson!!!!!!! Beyond ghetto.
Name your kids what you want but you’re dooming them to a career behind the counter at Burger King. I’m pretty confident there will never be a Supreme Court Justice named Esoterica.
Noey Babie™:Girl, I had a friend in high school named Grenade…
Right
When there are many, many beautiful, powerful, creative names from the many tribes and cultures of Africa, this should not happen ever. In the Igbo culture, a child’s name is a sacred thing, it can be a mark of distinction or shame for the rest of their lives. In the Bible, a child’s name was part of the legacy they would carry into the world for the rest of their lives. Jia, I agree with you, we must educate those members of society that don’t know better so they will in the future do better. Love ya, another well done blog. Uzoma

