I dunno why this came to mind…oh no wait. I do…it came to mind because I’m on Twitter ranting about men/women who step outside of their marriage.

A couple of years ago, I use to participate on this message board quite frequently. I met a lot of people, some of which I became friends with. One in particular….I won’t call her name but JUST so she knows that this blog entry is about her, we’ll call her “Dee,” as that’s the first letter in her name and well, I don’t feel like being cute and creating another one.

Nonetheless, Dee and I became friends and instantly began sharing things with one another. I shared things with her about my sexuality, while she often said that she lived vicariously through me because she was not nearly as open as I was about who I am/what I do.

Well fast forward it to whenever…she and I had a falling out. I don’t remember WHAT the falling out was about but it led to her sending me this long and drawn out email where she attempted to “read” me my rights and give me a little advice about myself. The whole time I’m reading this, I’m thinking to myself “Wow…she must’ve stayed up all night concocting this one.” I blocked her email address and went about my business.

But it wasn’t until TONIGHT, after talking about men/women who cheat in marriages and those who agree to help folks cheat that I felt compelled to write this and I’ll direct it RIGHT to her. At the time, I was more shocked at how she tried to jump on my ass, so I didn’t even THINK to throw any daggers.

Nonetheless, during the course of our friendship, she told me that she went to her high school reunion and met up with some guy whose name begins with a “B” (again, details given b/c I KNOW she reads this and I want her to know I’m talking about her). She said that she had a ginormous crush on B when she was in school and throughout the years, they communicated and he still looked the same. Only thing is…he’s married now WITH a child. Anyway, she goes to this reunion, sees him, smiles and shakes hands with his wife and comes back talking about how she thinks she might be falling for him. She went and got lingerie with his name “written” out in rhinestones, sent him lewd pics and even drove to Virginia to see him (and sleep with him), knowing full well that he had a wife. Her excuse for getting over? “He said they had problems.” Bitch please…as I yawn.

It kills me that you even had the nerve to try and play me to the left with your email, attempting to psychoanalyze the type of woman I am when clearly, your shits not together. Women who have it together don’t sleep with other womens’ men. They don’t drive in their Nissan with specialty plates all the way from GA to another state to get rooms with men who have wives and children to go home to. Now, this isn’t to say I’m perfect because during my time being friends with you, I had a lot of screwy ways about me…many of which I’m not proud of. But the things I indulged in at that time effected me. You, on the other hand, were opening your legs to a married man and having the nerve to wonder “why” things weren’t working out to begin with.

I may be a lot of things to a lot of people but one thing I don’t suffer from is low self esteem. Only THOSE types of bitches think that men who cheat WITH them will leave their wives and NEVER cheat on them. So in addition to bidding on some self esteem at Ebay, you should try buying a clue. What makes you so different.

I hate people who cheat…and the women/men who aid them get the side eye just as much.

J.