today was a good day
I accomplished a LOT today…well, I crossed out a lot of things on my ‘to do’ list, I should say.
I went out and got my TVs for my crib. I found the most comfortable sheets EVER! I got two tats (wrist and shoulder) and a new piercing (hahaha). My sis even got tatted up today! POW!
I know it may seem lame but today was a REALLY good day. May not seem like much to many of you but it was a lot for me.
Now if only I could hur’up and get back to the A!
tats
I’m bored with myself. And when I become bored, I don’t get self destructive…I just do some silly shit. For me, that will be some tats.
I think that I will get at least two of the 10 tats I want tomorrow….
I wish I had more tat ideas. When you tat yourself, you should always get something that means something…and not just some shit you flip through a book and find (unless it has personal meaning for YOU).
If any of you have tats, share what you have…where and why?
love you guys. appreciate the continued support.
testa-cleez species
I am so proud of the chick I’ve become over the years. I remember years ago, it was very hard for me to let go of a guy that I’m “seeing” if I had those types of feelings for him. Didn’t matter what he did or how he did it. I just didn’t have a backbone. But back in 2005, I made a promise to myself that, for as long as I am here on earth and (dating OR married), I would never allow a guy to be the victor of my emotions. This is not to say that I will never get angry or want to rant about the BS a man is trying to take me through. But what it does mean is that I won’t sit around crying and ‘wishing’ that things had been different.
I don’t think that I am perfect by any means. I have so many flaws that the word “flawed” wouldn’t begin to scratch the surface of describing who I am. However, I have always been a believer that in relationships (and I mean serious ones…not just a FWB type deal) that everything is give/give + take/take, with both parties doing an equal share of both giving and taking. After my relationship in ’05, I came to a few realizations that made ‘me’ not even want to date me. I nagged, I bitched when he was going out, I went through his stuff…all things I couldn’t do today even if I tried. Ladies, no matter what type of hindrances you try to put on a man, if he’s gonna be with another chick, disrespect you to your face or simply not live up to the person you’d hoped he’d be, you should learn to check your emotions at the door and be prepared to go when it’s time to go.
I’m not on any ‘she-man’ hating dudes type deal b/c as I expressed last night…not ALL men are crap. But I’m thankful…so grateful…that I have been blessed with the ability to walk away from a situation when it’s not befitting of my current ‘me.’ One thing that I’ve always read about Cancers is that we like/love hard and are loyal to a fault. But when we’re crossed, we don’t forget it. We may very well forgive you but in the back our minds, we’re side-eye’ing you with a look so mean that your shadow would be afraid to go there with us.
That being said, I try sooo hard to stay away from men at this time because the ones that I have encountered and have the pleasure (or displeasure) to interact with seem to take me off my focus. I am willing to provide undivided attention but not if extra stress is added in or if your drama multiplies mine by more than what it should. So I dedicate this blog to me…I dedicate this entry to raising a toast to my abilities to stand firm my ground when most people think that there is nothing below me to begin with.
Good morning….
insomnia
I have been working like a mad woman, almost obsessed with MissJia.com. Don’t ask me why. I just know that I haven’t been so into anything since…I dunno? Quite honestly, I can say that I fall in and out love with certain ideas quick. Just hope its worth it.
more to love
So…I suppose that I’m should feel threatened, hurt, defeated, confused, “told off,” etc., but oddly, I don’t. Shit like this actually makes me laugh. For one, you’re spending a few minutes out of your day to email me this type of bullshit. Two, you send it as though I should feel some type of way b/c you just got “in my shit.” And finally, the anger….lol! Somebody blow me…PLEASE!
I think that I will start posting these types of emails as I get them (and trust me, it’s definitely not often enough to put it in its own category) only b/c these type of people need love in their lives. They’re seeking something that’s just not being made readily available to them, so they take to the internets to try and “clown” for the sake of compensation. Psych 101 in this bitch. Boy, bye…I don’t have to ever be seen as a Miss Humani-anything but you can still kiss my humanitari-ass 
I see you, fat daddy!
Marquis Houston (chunkiv2009@yahoo.com)
my thoughts on chris brown
Alright, I am catching a lot of flack from my readers over at www.missjia.com for not posting a comment of my own regarding Chris Brown’s latest video on Youtube, so I figured I’d come to my personal blog and post. The main reason I didn’t post my thoughts there was b/c I was so caught up in getting it posted that I literally forgot to add something before asking what my readers thought.
That being said, here goes nothing….
I want to preface what I’m saying by first making it known that no, I do not think that it’s okay for men to hit women, women to hit men, etc., etc., etc.
However, what’s bothering me about this whole video posting is that Chris can’t seem to win for losing. When dude stayed silent and wasn’t bothering to speak about the situation, everyone was pissed and appalled. But now that he’s said something…with an apology no less…everybody’s criticizing dude about everything from the fact that it ‘seemed scripted’ on down to his Michael Jackson dedication wardrobe (but that shit is funny as hell).
My first question to anybody that’ll listen is…if you were a public figure caught in a scandal that ginormous, do you think that it would be wise to simply ‘freestyle’ on your thought process or would it have been better to pre-collect your thoughts before letting your words spill all over the web?
Second, what exactly IS the problem with a scripted apology? Nevermind the fact that it may have been read or rehearsed…was anybody besides me listening to the words? Chris didn’t point a finger, he accepted full responsibility for what he did and he let the world know.
Third, how would many of you have felt if he never said a word? Let’s just say that he continued attending white parties, taking MAC book pics with Teyana Taylor, spotted going on shopping sprees all over Beverly Hills but never once made an effort at apologizing…exactly how would you feel about that one?
The bottom line is no matter what, in the court of the people, Chris Brown is forever tarnished and even if Jesus would’ve made a guest appearance in the video with him telling many of you to “Let go and Let my Father,” you STILL would’ve had something negative to say. Quite frankly, Chris didn’t have to ever say shit. And video or not, there will always be people who support him so trust…that situation didn’t do a WHOLE lot to hurt his credibility with his fanbase.
There are so many people who are willing to convict a person WITHOUT ever giving them a 2nd chance when they seem to (possibly) mean well and take giant steps towards fixing their own lives. I’m glad that some of you have had the opportunity to see the worst in me but after reading a few of the comments on MissJia.com and other blogs, I can’t help but to wonder what your whispers in the dark (about me) would consist of. Afterall, it’s still judging, right?